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A guy has expressed serious romantic interest in me. I find it very difficult to believe he could really be attracted to me. There are cultural and kyriarchal beauty standards in any given time and place.
Liking fat girls is not a fetish – it’s a preference you need to stop being ashamed of
You know it does. The ways some people are visually or sexually attracted to others do align with cultural beauty ideals. It appears that not only could this guy be attracted to you, but that he is. What you need to make peace with is how you feel about yourself and your body.
Just to be clear, liking fat girls is not a fetish | Metro News
A lack of self-acceptance and self-love can cause this relationship—if you want to pursue it—to suffer. Same goes for your relationships with other women.
We should be critical of beauty ideals for a lot of reasons, rather than letting them starve us of appreciating all kinds of bodies. Do yourself a solid and make a vow right now to stop giving them such power.
Aim to love your body as naked women in lake part of your whole self.