Do you have any specific suggestions for discussion about content on LDS. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people.
The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. My husband is an amazing human being and an international cardiologist.
Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with.
Chances are you can't though. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays.
If we can say them together, great; if not.
They therefore have a high standard to work toward. I think we date twice a year. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost.