If it's the former I'm more inclined to think he's being self-centered in your relationship.
Be specific every time you ask. She won't marry you.
I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith. Thank you for pointing this out. In areas with lots of single Mormons of dating and marriageable age, the Church has established singles wards. He also doesn't let me sleep in and stay there when he leaves for work. As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens.
They seriously have movies about it. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other.